Thursday, October 28, 2010

Sad major changes.....

So I haven't written in my blog for a while now because I am going thru some major changes most that I am not happy about, I found out thru sneeky means that I was about to get evicted from my home :( yea so that sorda put a major damper on the way i've been feeling. My boyfriend has lived here in this house/apartment for 11yrs with his Gramma and recently myself & my children as his Gramma passed away in December of 2009 I came here to Ny from Tx in Feb 2010 & have been living here now to present time....


Well my landlord has recently had a memory relapse he has no knowledge of me even coming here or living here for the last 8 months....Only the crazy thing is he's been in the apartment seen & talked to me, talked to me on the phone about matters concerning things needing fixed & having a building inspecter come inside the apartment along with himself take pics of things..........but he has no memory of me being here How retarded is that crap.....

The list of few things that I've had to give up or indure while living here is way beyond what I've wanted to have to go thru....1. I had to give up my little dog Niceum which she is now staying at my boyfriends parents she was nice enough to care for her for me otherwise i would have had to give her away that would have crushed me more then anything...according to the landlord as told to me on the phone by the man himself (etheir get rid of the dog or i will evict you) i did as asked....2. I came here with nothing but my clothes and a few personal things i could grab that was depressing enough for me I never would have come here knowen this was going to happen.....

 
So as of now I am everyday looking,hunting,searching for another place to live.....so far I've only recived the 3day vacate notice which i know isn't legal  on this paper he sent his claim is that he is going to pursue an eviction based on there being to many occupants living in the unit and a water bill that he claims we owe with an amount added of an exsisting bill owed by my boyfriends deceased Gramma which brings the bill too $312. we went to a place here where we live to try to get help when the agency contacted the landlord he refused to accept there help his excuse was that he was going to evict us anyways so the agency felt paying the bill wasn't going to help us thus no water bill paid :( 

 Which leaves me to today even tho I could just about crawl in a corner and cry myself to death everyday I refuse I will be happy & for the most part I have :) I seem to be able to find joy in something everyday with my quiet walks at night my Love filled moments with my Honey I couldn't ask for more then those moments I am thankful for my family my kids and the joy they bring me everyday and with each smile they give me with there crazyness lol...... so I can find peace and joy in the midst of any storm    :)